Q&A: Is This A Part Played InThe Dating “Game”?
Question by ♥beau♥: Is This A Part Played InThe Dating “Game”?
I just want to know, why is that everytime I ask how to get over a crush (Im a woman) that I never get an answer, from the guys?
So now Im asking kindly can someone give me advice on how to move on? Ive been crushing on this one for months, he has spoken and flirted with me but never asked for my phone number…
so I want to forget him too.
Im like this…
I dont like clubs, I dont like any replacement crush (when I like some1, actually like them), I dont have many friends, Im trying to be friends with one guy in my class (he’s very shy, I think he’d be a cool friend), Im quiet, shy, not outgoing and its not in my personality to be. I only want a good group of friends I can chill with a lot and trust
(Im saying all this so just GOING OUT is not going to help, cause Im not in the position to GET OUT)
So any advice on how to change my thinking or something…:/
my crush is very outgoing, the guy my class is not…
Best answer:
Answer by rebecca d
hskf
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Girls, help!! Do you think this chick likes me…or?
Question by Los Castillos: Girls, help!! Do you think this chick likes me…or?
…or do you think she’s just playing games…
• She came in to the cafeteria one day and we both kinda looked at each other, next thing I know, she comes up to me and asked to sit with me. We chatted for a while until she had to go to class, which I walked her to and she was like “aww you’re walking me to class!”
• I go back the same time the next week and she was there, sitting at my same table alone but by the time I got my food, she was gone! So I walked to her class and found her. I got her number and we went out the following night. We were out just chatting till 2:30am, and talked about everything. She really seemed to open up to me and said she feels I understand her. I kissed her on her hand, which she said “aww thats so cute!” and I left.
• Our conversations are always very fluid. We agree on a lot of things. Like how people need to be friends first before dating, and that people divorce not because they fall out of love, but they lose their friendship to which I said “can i be your best friend?” and she goes “if you want!”
• She also asked me why I dont have a girlfriend and asked me what kind of girls I like.
• She’ll text me if we dont talk for a few days saying she misses me or answer her phone “Hey stranger” if we don’t talk for a little while. She also wants me to go on this trip to New York with her. I’m also a Christian and have some Christian bumper stickers and stuff on my car. She said she loves them and that she went out and got some from this Christian store I told her about.
She just seems flaky sometimes, like she’ll start texting me saying she wants to get together this week and I’ll say I want to as well but then I’ll call her and won’t get her. Im not sure if she wants to just be friends or what. I think shes definitely been hurt in relationships before..so I don’t know if she’s, like, testing me? What do you think girls??
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Answer by Averi Marshall
Yeah I think she does
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Q&A: Is this Scorpio guy trolling me or what?
Question by _LaDolceVita_: Is this Scorpio guy trolling me or what?
(Sorry to make this loooong)
This Scorpio guy is my friend. I know him for about 3 months. We get a long pretty well. To be honest, I do like him. But I don’t know if it’s a good idea because I just don’t understand him.
One day, we had this friends gathering and games night at a friend’s house. One day before that event, he asked me ‘are you going tomorrow?’ I didn’t say anything but I asked him back ‘are you?’. He said ‘Idk, I should…cz it’s not far away from my place.’
So I went to that gathering and he was there. We made Sushi for dinner and he asked me to help/teach him how to make Sushi. He was complimenting me (really loud like a dork) for helping him make Sushi. For the whole ‘making-sushi’ and dinner time, he was sitting next to me. That ‘Sushi’ moment was kinda cute. At the time we were playing board-game, he compliments me again (e.g “whoa…ur good!) and there is one time where he repeated my answer although it was obviously ‘wrong’. .
The next couple of days…he just act normal to me…like a normal friend, but sometimes, he sat/stand next to me without saying a word. I tried to be nice and asked him simple question, he just smiled and gave a short but nice respond.
One time on our way home (there was me, him and another friend), as we get out the train, he asked me what do I take next and if I’m going to take this or that bus. I told him that there’s only one bus to take me home.
Another time, on our way home (there were just me and him) he asked me again. “Can you walk home?! Is it far away? How long does it take when you walk home?” I told him that it only take 10 minutes and so on. He didn’t say anything but keep walk in front of me. When I say ‘Bye2 n take care!’ he only smiled but he didn’t look at me and just walk away.
Last night, at the New Year party, I preformed a drama ( I was the main-female character). I saw him standing on the back while the other audience were sitting down (he looked excited, kinda). There’s one scene where the main-male character poked my chin and say ‘I do love her’ as a part of the scenario. After that, I didn’t see him standing anymore. He sat down, busy with his phone! (I know…this seems stupid. It’s just a play).
Before we go home (after the party), I was talking to his friend (a girl) where he suddenly appear and asked his friend “where’s your phone?” and then he said “I have a good idea…you should stay at his place (while pointing on his best friend), because it’s gonna be dangerous walking alone home since it’s New Year and everyone will be drunk and blablabla. I’ll walk you there.” I just stand there and pretend that I’m busy with my bag, but being honest (I’m kinda jealous).
So, is he trolling me or what? or is he only trying to be nice at me?
Best answer:
Answer by ScorpiusOne
I’m not even sure if he’s a true Scorpio but I think he might kind of like you but is not sure yet. (you don’t say how old you guys are). If you like him, then respond to him a little more. Not be forward but if he compliments you – for things like knowing how to make sushi or being good at a game – say things like “you catch on fast” or “you’re good too” They like it when a girl thinks that they’re smart or special. The next time you talk to him, you should ask him what he thought about the drama. If he says something stupid like “I don’t care for plays much,” don’t get upset or take it personally because Scorpios can be blunt. Just say “But was I okay? Because your opinion matters. It’s okay if you think I wasn’t that good. I just want to know.” And again, if it’s not a good review, don’t take it too hard. Like I said, Scorpios will be blunt but he’ll appreciate the fact that his opinion matters and that you can take an honest answer. Ask him whether his friend stayed over at his other friend’s house. Tell him it was nice of him to offer to walk her there.
Just take things slow and like this for a while. If he decides that he likes you, he’ll let you know but if he’s a true Scorpio, it might take a while. Don’t try to make him jealous or play any games where you look like you might like some other guy. That would be a mistake. Just be yourself.
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Is this part of the “game”?
Question by yed s: Is this part of the “game”?
I met this girl through mutual friends and we had all gone out for drinks as a group on a number of occasions. I finally asked her out and she agreed. We decided to go out on the Friday and we talked on Monday on the phone. I called on Thursday evening and left a message. She never returns my call. So I call her up after work on Friday around 6pm and leave another message. She calls me back around 6:30pm and said that she never got the first message on her phone. She proceeds to ask me if we can go out some other time since she has a ton of things to do for her cousins wedding the next day. I called her again on Sunday and again left a message, she returned my call on the Tuesday. We finally go out on the Friday and I’m pretty sure things went we’ll.
Now the thing is that I feel that I’m the one making all of the effort. I’m the only one calling and she only calls to returned my missed calls. Is she playing “the game”?
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Answer by randyken
Yes and you ought to, too. Don’t call more than once without a call back.
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is this article supply or demand?
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Smartphones
Microsoft Updates Mobile Presence With AT&T
Agustino Fontevecchia, 10.11.10, 02:55 PM EDT
Software firm unveils Windows Phone 7 operating system, related devices.
In what appears to be a major strategic step by Microsoft, the software giant CEO Steve Balmmer announced a partnership with AT&T to run their new operating system, Windows Phone 7, on their network, as he showed off nine new smartphones that will carry the software.
“The windows phone redefines the game,” said Ballmer at the official presentation Monday in New York. Nine phones were presented which would run mainly on AT&T ( T – news – people )’s mobile network, with some running on Deustche Telekom’s T-mobile network; they are expected to be priced at $ 199.99 with a two-year contract.
Windows Phone 7 is the culmination of an overhaul in Microsoft ( MSFT – news – people )’s mobile business, as Andy Lees, who joined the software company in 2008 and was named president of mobile business two weeks ago, helped to revitalize the department.
Microsoft has been a laggard in the mobile market, with Windows Mobile, their older operating system, accounting for just 5% of the worldwide market, as opposed to the 41% held by Symbian, which runs on Nokia ( NOK – news – people ) phones, 18% for RIM ( RIMM – news – people )’s BlackBerry’s, 17% for Google ( GOOG – news – people )’s Android , and 14% for Apple ( AAPL – news – people )’s iPhone, according to research firm Gartner.
The new operating system seeks to differentiate itself from its competitors, namely Apple’s iPhone and Google’s Android operating system, which has become the top selling smartphone system in the U.S.. “Live tiles,” instead of applications, guide the interface, informing users of Facebook updates or showing the album cover of the song being played. Microsoft will integrate its Vuze music software, in part the inspiration for Windows Phone 7′s interface, to the operating system, while AT&T will fuse its U-Verse mobile TV service to the phones.
The new operating system will allow users to use Microsoft Office and coordinate easily with PCs, it will also allow users to connect to Xbox live, Microsoft’s online gaming community; AT&T will offer U-Verse subscriptions for the Xbox live users as well.
Microsoft has lined up 60 carriers in more than 30 countries, and expects to release the phones by October 21 in Europe and November 8 in the U.S. Microsoft’s deal with AT&T comes amid recent reports that Apple is developing an iPhone to be carried on Verizon ( VZ – news – people ) Wireless starting in 2011, and will end the device’s exclusivity with AT&T.
The markets accepted the deal, with Microsoft’s shares up $ 0.05 or 0.2% to $ 24.62 and AT&T’s stock up $ 0.08 or 0.3% to $ 28.30. Monday, a slow day for the markets due to the Columbus Day Holiday, saw investors unworried about the effects of the deal on Verizon, with its shares up $ 0.14 or 0.4% to $ 32.97.
Best answer:
Answer by John Doe
In my opinion, supply.
Trying to boost their sales.
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Categories: Common Questions Tags: article, demand, supply, This
Am I the crazy one in this situation..?
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was seeing this guy, he broke it off with me back in November 09, I changed my cell number, he got it through my job, and was prank calling my phone,calling my job, sending mail and stuff to my house with his last name, like for instance I would get mail for a “Joe Mitchell” when his last name is “Mitchell”, so I called him a few times, and he asked me to come over his house and sleep with him, I made up an excuse and never went to his house, so he still continued to play games on my phone, plus on my house phone, so I went to his apartment to try and talk to him, he tells me to leave and never come to his house, i see his baby mother and I try and talk to her in a very calm collected voice, she just tells me “I dont have nothing to talk to you about” and just starts yelling..I’m like wow why is she yelling, so come to find out she lives exactly downstairs from his apartment, and when i looked on the aparment phone directory, his name is under the apartment she stayed is in his name, so I aks her if they live together she tells me you need to ask him…so i leaveand hes like I’m about to call the police, so an hour later hes prank calling my phone, i change my number again, and again he gets my cell number and is prank calling my phone again, so i endup calling him, and hes like “Why are you calling my phone” you crosssed the line coming over to my house the way you did causing a scene and I dont have anything to do with you” so I pologize and hes ignoring me and ignoring me, and two days later he calls me five times in the middle of the night I was sleep so i text him and text him hes ignoring me for the past three months, I try and call him email him he just ignores me, …in addittion, again I dint know if I’m going crazy but every time I ‘m going to an event at least two of his close friends attend, and I mean every single event, and we did not grow up together , or shared any mutual friends.so I just thought that was weird,hes callling me dumb and stupid on the sly on these fake pages, he has also created ‘fake” facebook pages and added every single one of my friends/family members,…and the weird thing about it is that i have created a fake facebook profle and communicated with these “fake” facebook profiles and hes dropping hints that its him behind the profiles, telling me he cares about me on the fake pages,but when I try and talk to him personally he ignores me, its like i cant let go,can anyone help me please,I am so confused and sad at the same time..Am I going crazy?
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Answer by kanga
Why yes, you are.
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Categories: Common Questions Tags: crazy, situation, This
What is this guy thinking?
Question by _LaDolceVita_: What is this guy thinking?
(Sorry to make this loooong)
This guy is my friend. I know him for about 3 months. We get a long pretty well and we used to be in one band. To be honest, I do like him. But I don’t know if it’s a good idea because I just don’t understand him.
(FIY: Both of us are 19 years old. Mature enough, right?)
One day, we had this ‘friends gathering and games night’ at a friend’s house. One day before that event, he asked me ‘are you going tomorrow?’ I didn’t say anything but I asked him back ‘are you?’. He said ‘Idk, I should…cz it’s not far away from my place.’
So I went to that gathering and he was there. We made Sushi for dinner and he asked me to help/teach him how to make Sushi. He was complimenting me (really loud like a dork) for helping him make Sushi. For the whole ‘making-sushi’ and dinner time, he was sitting next to me. That ‘Sushi’ moment was kinda cute. At the time we were playing board-game, he compliments me again (e.g “whoa…ur good!) and there is one time where he repeated my answer although it was obviously ‘wrong’. =.=” (dork!)
The next couple of days…he just act normal to me…like a normal friend, but sometimes, he sat/stand next to me, but he didn’t say a word. I tried to be nice and asked him simple question, he just smiled and gave a short but nice respond.
One day on our way home (there was me, him and another friend), as we get out the train, he asked me what do I take next and if I’m going to take this or that bus. I told him that there’s only one bus to take me home.
Another day, on our way home (there were just me and him) he asked me again. “Can you walk home?! Is it far away? How long does it take when you walk home?” I told him that it only take 10 minutes and so on. He didn’t say anything but keep walk in front of me. When I say ‘Bye2 n take care!’ he only smiled but he didn’t look at me and just walk away.
Last night, at the New Year party, I preformed a drama ( I was the main-female character). I saw him standing on the back while the other audience were sitting down (he looked excited, kinda). There’s one scene where the main-male character poked my chin and say ‘I do love her’ as a part of the scenario. After that, I didn’t see him standing anymore. He sat down, busy with his phone! (I know…this sounds stupid. It’s just a play, right?!).
Before we go home (after the party), I was talking to his friend… (a girl) where he suddenly appear and asked her “where’s your phone?” and then he said “I have a good idea…you should stay at his place (while pointing on his best friend), because it’s gonna be dangerous walking alone home since it’s New Year and everyone will be drunk and blablabla. I’ll walk you there.” He looked at me, didn’t say a word, talked back to her and left. I just stand there and pretend that I’m busy with my bag, but being honest (I’m kinda jealous).
So, is he playing with me or what? or is he only trying to be nice at me?
Best answer:
Answer by Damsel_in_Distress
TL;DR
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Categories: Common Questions Tags: thinking, This
what would you do if this happend on one of the raw’s later this year?
Question by : what would you do if this happend on one of the raw’s later this year?
note:sorry everyone i am a very bad speller and my key board screws up a lot so please excuse my spelling
Note2:this is a few month after triple has returned and his feud with sheamus is over
ok the general manager has not been booking triple h in the shows for the past few weeks (kayfabe)
so at the beggening of raw a pissed triple h comes to the ring and gets on the mic and says “ok im tired of sitting on my @ss all day i want to beat the shit out of someone so gm send someone out here now (he waits a few seconds) ok we can just wait all day i will sit in this ring until some comes out here (the beeping noise goes off) (the reason i am using the computer for this is because i dont know who the gm is) and michale cole reads the email “and i quote” “triple hyou want action well then that is exactly what your going to get there are to guys in the back that have been waiting to get there hands on you and hbk for a good long while (hinting at the too guys tna run) but since hbk is not here you get more of a challenge guys come on out
this theme song plays http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKtlDuaI8XU
and out runs the new age outlaws they hit the ring and start beating the living hell out of the game security finally get them off of him and then the beep goes off again and michale cole readsthe email “and i quote” “triple h i recommend you find a partner because if you dont have on by the end of the show you will be in a handicapp match against the new ge outlaws but if you do find one then it will be the new age outlaws vs. triple h and a partner of his chooseing
near the mid show we cut to the bck and triple h is on the phone talking to a unkown person he say “so are you almost here. yeah i know it is going to be great teaming with you again. ok alright see you when you get here” the new interview guy (sorry cant remember his name) walks up to triple h and says “triple h if you dont mind me asking who was that on the phone” he says “just a old friend” as he walks away
it is time for the match as the new age outlaws walk to the ring followed by triple h who stop at the ramp there is a long pause and you can hear the fans screaming “HBK!!! HBK!!! HBK!!!” when all of the sudden triple h smiles and points to the ramp and this theme plays
and X-pac hits the ring
the matchis back and forth and near the end of the match jesse pulls out some brass knuckles and nails x-pac with them and ofcourse causes a dq and billy gun hits triple h with a chair to close the show
the next week x-pac and triple h reform DX and the week after that the new ge outlaws change their name to the degenerates and start useing this theme
all of this results in a very long feud that ends at wrestlemania 28 with dx winning a elimination tables match
Best answer:
Answer by Nolan Novelli
aosdf
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Q&A: I m having a hard time leaving this guy?Can anyone give any religious perspective?
Question by : I m having a hard time leaving this guy?Can anyone give any religious perspective?
I was seeing this guy i worked with for a few months and, he broke it off with me back in November 09 he told me flat out, hes not looking to date, just an intimate relationship, so I said adios, so I changed my cell number, and he got it again somehow, and was prank calling my phone,calling my job, sending mail and stuff to my house with his last name, like for instance I would get mail for a “Joe Mitchell” when his last name is “Mitchell”, so I called him a few times, and he asked me to come over his house and sleep with him, I made up an excuse and never went to his house, so he still continued to play games on my phone, plus on my house phone, so I went to his apartment to try and talk to him, he tells me to leave and never come to his house, i see his baby mother and I try and talk to her in a very calm collected voice, she just tells me “I dont have nothing to talk to you about” and just starts yelling..I’m like wow why is she yelling, so come to find out she lives exactly downstairs from his apartment, and when i looked on the aparment phone directory, his name is under the apartment she stayed is in his name, so I aks her if they live together she tells me you need to ask him…so i leaveand hes like I’m about to call the police, so an hour later hes prank calling my phone, i change my number again, and again he gets my cell number and is prank calling my phone again, so i endup calling him, and hes like “Why are you calling my phone” you crosssed the line coming over to my house the way you did causing a scene and I dont have anything to do with you” so I pologize and hes ignoring me and ignoring me, and two days later he calls me five times in the middle of the night I was sleep so i text him and text him hes ignoring me for the past three months, I try and call him email him he just ignores me, …in addittion, again I dint know if I’m going crazy but every time I ‘m going to an event at least two of his close friends attend, and I mean every single event, and we did not grow up together , or shared any mutual friends.so I just thought that was weird,hes callling me dumb and stupid on the sly on these fake pages, he has also created ‘fake” facebook pages and added every single one of my friends/family members,…and the weird thing about it is that i have created a fake facebook profle and communicated with these “fake” facebook profiles and hes dropping hints that its him behind the profiles, telling me he cares about me on the fake pages,but when I try and talk to him personally he ignores me, its like i cant let go,can anyone help me please,I am so confused and sad at the same time..Am I going crazy?
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Answer by Slarty
tl;dr
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Q&A: How do i move on from this crazy twisted imaginery relationship I have with this guy?
Question by : How do i move on from this crazy twisted imaginery relationship I have with this guy?
I was seeing this guy i worked with for a few months and, he broke it off with me back in November 09 he told me flat out, hes not looking to date, just an intimate relationship, so I said adios, so I changed my cell number, and he got it again somehow, and was prank calling my phone,calling my job, sending mail and stuff to my house with his last name, like for instance I would get mail for a “Joe Mitchell” when his last name is “Mitchell”, so I called him a few times, and he asked me to come over his house and sleep with him, I made up an excuse and never went to his house, so he still continued to play games on my phone, plus on my house phone, so I went to his apartment to try and talk to him, he tells me to leave and never come to his house, i see his baby mother and I try and talk to her in a very calm collected voice, she just tells me “I dont have nothing to talk to you about” and just starts yelling..I’m like wow why is she yelling, so come to find out she lives exactly downstairs from his apartment, and when i looked on the aparment phone directory, his name is under the apartment she stayed is in his name, so I aks her if they live together she tells me you need to ask him…so i leave and hes like I’m about to call the police, so an hour later hes prank calling my phone, i change my number again, and again he gets my cell number and is prank calling my phone again, so i endup calling him, and hes like “Why are you calling my phone” you crosssed the line coming over to my house and disrespecting him and causing a scene and I dont have anything to do with you” so I apologize and hes ignoring me and ignoring me, and two days later he calls me five times in the middle of the night I was sleep so i text him and text him hes ignoring me for the past three months, I try and call him email him he just ignores me,so I dont know what to do?I have feelings for him and I cant move on? …PlusI dint know if I’m going crazy but every time I ‘m going to an event at least two of his close friends attend, and I mean every single event, and we did not grow up together , or shared any mutual friends.so I just thought that was weird,hes callling me dumb and stupid on the sly on these fake pages, he has also created ‘fake” facebook pages and added every single one of my friends/family members,…and the weird thing about it is that i have created a fake facebook profle and communicated with these “fake” facebook profiles and hes dropping hints that its him behind the profiles, telling me he cares about me on the fake pages,but when I try and talk to him personally he ignores me, its like i cant let go,can anyone help me please,I am so confused and sad at the same time..then I cant stop going to his page, like its an addiction, how do i move on?
Best answer:
Answer by Laura
First of all, this guy seems crazy. I highly suggest getting a restraining order. This man is not showing feelings for you, he is showing that he is stalking you. Calling you none stop, creating fake FB pages and adding everyone you know, and then having his friends stalk you? That’s scary, and it’s not normal. I understand that you have feelings for this man, but you deserve a lot better than him. If you were in a relationship right now, do you really think you could trust him? And after all of this, do you really think he deserves you?
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